In a recent discussion, two things were mentioned that were supposed to be seductive to a woman: — having a guy paint her toe-nails — being able to tie a knot in a cherry stem with one’s tongueThe person who brought these activities up was reluctant to elaborate, so I emailed and chat-roomed a number of women, asking if they would explain. The following is the results of this informal survey: The Toe-Nail Thing…- I do know that some women love having their feet played with (massaged, toe-painted, etc), but I’m not one of those since my feet are too ticklish.- On the funny side: it puts the male in a submissive position — Down on their hands and knees. (I don’t really think that is it… but it sounds good.)- as a guess… i think it would 1) make a woman feel special to have a man showing her such personal attention, 2) show her the tender, slow care he can provide, and 3) let her know he would do just about anything for her. I dunno… I guess on my part that’s how i would take it.- taking the time to paint a woman’s toenails supposedly demonstrates sensitivity and caring… In short, it’s foreplay.- You got me! LOL- Did you see the movie ”bull Durham”? One of the guys painted a woman’s toenails.- a guy that paints his lady’s toenails is someone who adores his lady.. know where i can get me one?- Some women have a toe fetish. It is one of the erogenous zones in some women. I’m one of them. That’s why the painted toenails… turns us on.- Well feet are very sensitive to the touch..and if you’re gentle enough..well its nice…good enough answer for ya??- It’s a cop out. It means she is too fat to bend over and paint them herself. – Never heard of it. Maybe it’s just being pampered by someone else that’s seductive.- I love to have attention paid to my feet, so that would explain liking one’s toe-nails being paintedThe Cherry-Stem Thing…- I figure it has something to do with being good with one’s tongue (I’m told I am), and the ”cherry” thing is just another reference to part of the female anatomy?- I asked another female here at work. She didn’t know either but thought that it probably related to certain sexual abilities.- As for the cherry stem, if you have to ask, you’ll never understand. *blush* I mean, what could you use your tongue for that requires THAT kind of dexterity and that even I would be too embarrassed to discuss!?- I think the old cliche about the cherry thing is your prowess in oral sex….- well …… the tying the knot in the cherry stem is pretty obvious …… that tells how talented you are with your tongue … I would say ……- something about the tongue movement.. i can do it… and it would turn you on….- I’m gonna be blunt here ok..so bear w/me… the cherry thing w/the tongue..well that just gives me the idea or thought of what else the tongue can do.. hehe- It’s very erotic…especially if I get to eat the cherry prior to the tongue tying ceremony – a very religious and sacred ceremony performed when one is whooing another. It’s just plain nutz!- If you can manage to pass that trait it does give indication of your umm errr durability … oh you know what I mean. Like to see if the tongue has the ”Proper” motion techniques. – The cherry stem thing has to do with having a flexible tongue (and I can tie one with mine). It’s the same question as ”Why do men get turned on watching a women eat an ice-cream cone or a banana?”- I can tie a knot in a cherry stem — haven’t done it in ages — it’s an old bar trick- the cherry stem thing… shows great tongue control… and we ALL know what that means…